The following are actual emails between me and a prospective customer over the last week. All personally identifiable information has been removed.
We live in city name and are planning on having built in our back yard a patio with built-in grill and fire pit.
Could you consult for us over here and do an estimate?
Thanks,
*name*
The city where they live is about an hour or more from our office, which for our market is quite a ways away. My reply:
Thanks for your note and your interest. I want to make sure I understand your request - are you looking for a design and estimate to construct the project, or for us to consult on the construction of the project?
Assuming it’s the former, we’d be happy to. Ordinarily, for more local projects we’ll sometimes do a design on spec, but because of the distance (and subsequent time) involved, we’d need to request a design fee. For something of this nature, we’d charge $500 for the design - and should you hire us to build that design, that $500 would be credited toward the installation.
If that sounds reasonable to you, either reply to this email and include your phone number and address, or give me a call at phone number.
I look forward to hearing from you.
To which he replied:
Thanks for the quick reply.
We can understand and do agree with your need to be reimbursed for your time, travel, and knowledge. However, $500 seems like a lot to us for your services. We have no reason to believe that you would not produce a good design and do excellent work. However, we all have different tastes and what if our tastes didn’t match your design?
We’d might risk $250 for your help initially. Could you do it for that?
I went on to explain in more detail than I should have about why the cost was what it was, that a project of this type is likely going to start at $10,000 and go north from there, and that no, I couldn’t do the consult/design for that much. Haven’t heard from him since.
If that client was suffering sticker shock over a $500 design fee that he’d get credit on if he hired us, he certainly wasn’t going to be ready to drop $10,000 or more on the actual project - which is why I gave that ballpark price in the first place. All told it probably saved me 10+ hours in driving, meetings and table time.
Times are tight right now, without a doubt. But it still doesn’t mean chasing down every single lead is a good idea. Some fish are just too scrawny to try to catch.
Check the forums for some discussions about prequalifying clients and pricing landscape design work.

I was also outside cleaning my truck. My ‘93 Chevy Work Truck. We had a little sun today, and I swear that truck is like a dog in those rays, soaking up every last bit of light that shines it’s way. It was at least 10 degrees warmer inside the cab when I climbed in to give it a good wash. Inside, washing the dash and floor I felt like I was hanging out with an old friend, a friend you don’t even need to talk with you’ve known each other for so long. You just know what the other one’s thinking:

